psychology of BDSM

A real Dom's view of Dating in 2015 - #3 How we got here / How to gain control again.

   Thirty years ago the feminist assault on traditional values began to take its toll.  Equity feminism (like good cholesterol) which had been around since the cowboy days (the women’s suffrage movement) morphed into its ugly twin: gender feminism (bad cholesterol) and equity of opportunity and compensation devolved into equity of genders, leading to college girls thinking they could have meaningless sex just like the guys did.   And college boys everywhere thanked you! 

Why I wrote a relationship / sexuality cookbook

Collared Cooking.   Seriously?  A cookbook counselling better relationships via good sex?  A sex book written in the metaphor of a cookbook?   A discussion starter in seat 3A on the flight to Poughkeepsie?  What were you thinking???