"Why is it that when we, or people, talk about this lifestyle it's about sex, roughness, pain, dominate, submissive, kinkiness, punishment, BDSM, multiple partners? Why can't it be a man, woman, respect and love that we, people, discuss?"
Just because men know how to eat and women know how to cook does not mean that making Veal Scaloppini is going to assure a night of passion.
Collared Cooking. Seriously? A cookbook counselling better relationships via good sex? A sex book written in the metaphor of a cookbook? A discussion starter in seat 3A on the flight to Poughkeepsie? What were you thinking???