Respect and love in the BDSM world.

"Why is it that when we, or people, talk about this lifestyle it's about sex, roughness, pain, dominate, submissive, kinkiness, punishment, BDSM, multiple partners? Why can't it be a man, woman, respect and love that we, people, discuss?"

Why I wrote a relationship / sexuality cookbook

Collared Cooking.   Seriously?  A cookbook counselling better relationships via good sex?  A sex book written in the metaphor of a cookbook?   A discussion starter in seat 3A on the flight to Poughkeepsie?  What were you thinking???