Thirty years ago the feminist assault on traditional values began to take its toll. Equity feminism (like good cholesterol) which had been around since the cowboy days (the women’s suffrage movement) morphed into its ugly twin: gender feminism (bad cholesterol) and equity of opportunity and compensation devolved into equity of genders, leading to college girls thinking they could have meaningless sex just like the guys did. And college boys everywhere thanked you!
I read that young people don’t really date anymore; they just hang out, they hook up. Not a bad deal for the men actually. They get sex without paying for dates and don’t incur the cost inherent in pursuing serial daters.
It would be nice to find the magic key that opens the door to true love and great sex. It would be great to be able to avoid the rejection, frustration, expense and confusion of dating, but there really is no easy way. Fate? Friends? Dating sites? Dating coaches? Church groups? Dating portfolios? All the above need to be rolled into a game plan to find that special love.
Just because men know how to eat and women know how to cook does not mean that making Veal Scaloppini is going to assure a night of passion.