A real Dom's view of Dating in 2015 - #3 How we got here / How to gain control again.

   Thirty years ago the feminist assault on traditional values began to take its toll.  Equity feminism (like good cholesterol) which had been around since the cowboy days (the women’s suffrage movement) morphed into its ugly twin: gender feminism (bad cholesterol) and equity of opportunity and compensation devolved into equity of genders, leading to college girls thinking they could have meaningless sex just like the guys did.   And college boys everywhere thanked you! 

Self-help means Help Yourself

It would be nice to find the magic key that opens the door to true love and great sex.  It would be great to be able to avoid the rejection, frustration, expense and confusion of dating, but there really is no easy way.   Fate?  Friends? Dating sites? Dating coaches?  Church groups? Dating portfolios?  All the above need to be rolled into a game plan to find that special love.